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Benoît Labourdette
presents

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An eleven minutes testimony 
on black background

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The kiss
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A perfect family.

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One.

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Two.

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Three.

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Four.

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Five.

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Six.

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Seven.

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And more.

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And others.

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So sympathetic.

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Everybody.

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Meetings.

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Diners.

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Christmas carols.

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Birthdays.

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The world is there.

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Always.

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The family, almost, of which we dream.

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Divorces ? Of course.

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And then the first grandchild.

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The number one.

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Divorce, quickly, of his parents.

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Benevolence of grandparents,

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He calls "Mom" and "Dad".

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Family stories...

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...not serious in appearance.

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An example, a small story,
nothing at all.

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A story among many others.

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When number one is
before adolescence,

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his uncle, number two, divorce,

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and remarried to number three.

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Number three, a woman.

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In family meetings,
number three touches number one.

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Number one becomes, in this moments,

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the object of number three.

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Human beings humans as objects.

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Cold, such as metal.

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Used, with each other.

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Connected, one over the other.

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Each must be used for something.

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Number one, whose coming had
bothered everyone,

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should be used.

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Incest.

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Trivialization of the destruction.

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Impeccable family.

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Just a small example :

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Everything is smooth, everything is beautiful.

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Number one tried to speak,
but hushed voice.

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Back to twelve years old.

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Back at number three.

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In the middle of the living room, with number one,
on the knees.

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Number three, that caress.

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Number three, who kisses him.

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Number three, who kisses him
on the mouth.

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Number three,
who rolls it shovels.

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Number one can't do anything.

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Everyone sees.

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This is just a little story.

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Almost everywhere, in a family on two,
I think, it's like this.

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Number two, who looks.

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Number four, the grand mother.

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Everything is normal.

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She is there, she looks.

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Number five.

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The mother of number one.

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She looks, everything is normal.

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Number six, number one's uncle.

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He looks, everything is normal.

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Number seven, the grand father.

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Everything is normal.
All is well.

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Number seven won't live very long.

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Who are these people ?
Unaware of their perversion ?

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What is this family ?

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Like so many other families...

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Who are these people ? Who feed themselves
from hidden destruction of their children ?

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Who are those here ?

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You. And me. We. You.

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You, who listens.
You, yes...

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You, who has seen what I've seen.

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You, who know everything.

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You, who endured, perhaps, what
number one has endured.

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And what all other numbers have,
in fact, endured like him, before...

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... during, after.

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All the time.

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One, two, three, four, five, six, seven.

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Everything must remain beautiful.

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It is answered : "It's not serious !".

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"Frankly, a little kiss"
It is affectionate."

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But this is nothing, this kiss, reiterated,
from number three to number one,

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at the heart of family meetings.

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"This is nothing against fathers who rape
their daughters for years."

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"None of that here ! Oh, you imagine,
it is horrible."

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"The people who do this..."

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"Here, everyone is happy."

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The injunction to be happy,
despite the abuse.

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You, you feel targeted ?

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Yes, you are.

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Even number one is targeted.

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He has suffered.

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A victim who can become executioner.

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"He suffered no great thing, what
to complain about ?"

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"There are so many people so
most unfortunate !"

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"One, two, three, four, five, six, seven."

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"So it is easy to say,"

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"and then that is something well known,
we talk about that at home."

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"And then, it does not happen among us."

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"And then there are children
that fabricate sometimes."

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"You saw the trials ?"

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"And then this TV..."

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"put us these ideas in the head !"

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"In our family, there is no
problem, everything is fine."

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"No! Number one,
you doesn't have the right to say it !"

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"You imagine evil that you do
to your grand mother ?"

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"Who is all alone now."

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"She has the right to grow old in peace !"

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"Number one, number one, calm yourself !"

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"One, two, three, four, five, six, seven."

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"Everybody love you."

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"You always saw things in black."

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"You always saw the black things."

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"Life is beautiful."

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But the number one life is not beautiful.

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Nobody can do anything.

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Incest, it's not funny.

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"And then, there are degrees !"

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But there are everywhere.

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"Number one,
see beautiful things, see."

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One, two, three, four, five, six, seven.

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But number does not succeed.

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Number one is dirty.

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Number one risks
to turn evil.

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Number doesn't want to.

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Psychoanalysis.

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Number one must be treated,
and he does it.

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"Ah, there, there, these psychoanalysts, they
put you those ideas in the head !"

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"Here, everything is going well."

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And the kiss, the kiss...

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One, two, three, four, five, six, seven.

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It is not to condemn you.

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This is just to say.

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It is not to make
everyone unhappy.

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It is not for a two fifty euros
prevention !

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This is just to say.

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Say the suffering, that is all.

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Say the truth.

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That there is so much everywhere,
that everyone hides.

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"This is not serious, it was not realized."

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"We do not think evil, see ! 
It is tenderness!"

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Come on, can you please now
seek, search the internet,

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looking, go if you please.

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You put: "incest".
And then you put: "incestuous climate".

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This is obvious stuff, obviously.

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You think you don't need
to look for, this is well known.

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But do you know that rape
is not that physical ?

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One, two, three, four, five, six, seven.

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If you please.

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Seeks, seeks "incestuous climate".

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Seek even just now,
only for thirty seconds.

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If you please.

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"Quiet you, number one !
You harm everyone !"

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A kiss, one, two, three, four, five,
six, seven times and more !

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"It's nothing..." And even if there
were no kiss, even less can kill.

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A number one more,
pretend that everything is fine.

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"Number one, quit !"

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Seek, seek, if you please.

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Number one has nothing to prove :

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This kiss...
one, two, three, four, five, six, seven,

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was forbidden.

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please... search the internet

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"incest", "incestuous climate"...

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history, voice, sound, film
Benoît Labourdette

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2013