Count the number of people present, and if there is a majority of women, suggest the game of using the “feminine neuter”: “all of us” instead of “all of us” for example.
I am a man and I have often proposed this game during trainings or meetings. I put it forward as a game, because for some people (men or women), it is in fact very shocking. Doing it as a game allows to get around some blocks.
It sounds simple, but this game allows you to work your brain to question meaningful cultural habits. I remember a young 4th grader telling me, very shocked, that we couldn’t say that because the rule is that “the masculine prevails over the feminine”. This simple sentence means well the integration, in the uses of the language itself, of a system not arbitrary, but of domination. This integration of the system of domination in the language cannot be neutral on our representations of the world, and thus on the unconscious way of managing our concrete relations between women and men.
And it’s a real game! We make mistakes, we laugh, we are surprised to hear it in the mouths of others, we laugh at its inflexibility. It also produces a connivance, which is always useful in exchanges. And then, after all, we practice new “neuronal rewiring”!
The practice of feminism seems to me to be an essential stake in the cultural actions, because the awareness of the systems of domination allows to go towards more equality, therefore to contribute to the democracy. The inequality between women and men is for me a cornerstone of the dominations that harm everyone.
But how to “put feminism into practice” concretely in public proposals? How can cultural actions, whatever their field of implementation (artistic, social, educational, professional...), arouse inner movements towards more respect of human rights? It is not a question of stating a normative feminist discourse, but of putting into practice an equality in the ways of acting. This is much more delicate and delicate to do than one might think, because it involves questioning one’s own unconscious functioning.
I share here some resources, partial, from my own pathways, practices and questionings: proposals and stories of cultural actions, working methods, methods of artistic creation and more conceptual or biographical reflections.